I suck at self-directed change.
I’ve fallen off more bandwagons than I care to count.
I’ve broken so many New Year’s resolutions that I just don’t make them anymore.
When I see a blog post that promises me change in six easy steps, I roll my eyes and move on.
But by any measure, the trajectory of my life includes dramatic changes. I’m a Jersey girl living in Alaska. I was a fundamentalist kid, and now I’m a non-theistic Unitarian Universalist.
How did these changes happen?
I chose life experiences that changed me.
For me, it has been: attending college and seminary; working as a minister; choosing a relationship with Liesl; moving to Alaska; adopting our dog, Brady; writing the Interdependent Web; and becoming Willa’s mother.
Next month we’re headed off on an open-ended adventure. It’s daunting—and it will change us.
I’m counting on that. Liesl and I need something to change us, because we’re really stuck—and we’re tired of it.
We’re putting ourselves in a kiln for a few months. Then we’ll open the door, and see how we’ve changed.
Are you tired of being stuck?
Choose your kiln—or your crucible, glacier, or forest fire.
Make it something big.
Make it something that will change you from the outside, in.
Photo by bptakoma, used under a Creative Commons attribution license.